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  • Change & Grow

    So here it is, isnt wrong, how we always want our partner to change themselves for us? We always expect that...But have we thought once that how would they ever feel, if that come to be?
    If you are with someone..you must love them for THEM! you must accept them as they are...the reason that they are with you is not because YOU want them to change themselves when they are with you BUT, because they can be themselves when they are with you!
    We never understood that, all we ever looked for was what we want...
    but you have to remember... its not about one.. its always about the 2 of you... So friends.. here's something you guys should have a look at!...



    ~~~Many of us make the mistake in relationships by thinking and trying to change the other person. We put all our efforts in trying to "fix" and change our loved ones. Instead of accepting them and loving them as is, we think they would be so much better if only they would act and do things our way.

    We all want and need unconditional love. No one wants to feel that they can only be loved and accepted by someone if they change according to the wants and desires of that special someone.

    If you think you can change another person you are really fooling yourself. The only person you can change is you! Once you change others will change. For every action there is a reaction. As you change and grow others will change and grow. Change is scary and some people won’t want you to change. The fear of the unknown keeps these people from wanting any change in their lives and so they won’t want to see you change. Don’t allow other people’s fears hold you back from making the positive changes you desire in your life.

    If you want to change yourself realize it takes time. Don’t be hard on yourself if you fall back to the old ways. We are all creatures of habit. It took a long time for you to be who you are today and you shouldn’t expect to change overnight. Also remember that change is a choice. You can choose to start today and learn to develop and create the positive changes you want. There are excellent self help books that will provide you with the guidance and information you need to make the changes you desire. Try listening to self-help books on tape while you drive, do housework, exercise or perform any mundane task. Once you acquire the knowledge you need to make a change then act on that knowledge. Action is the key to change. The little steps you make do count when it comes to changing in a positive way.

    Be persistent. Don’t give up until you have made the changes you desire in your life a habit! Enjoy the journey and discover the joy and excitement of making positive changes.



    Remember: A good loving relationship is one that allows each person to be himself or herself. Each person needs the freedom to grow and change at their own pace as they see fit. We can only change ourselves. Learn to love and accept yourself and you will be able to love and accept others without the need or desire to change them.~~~


    <3..MeiN jEenA tErE nAal.. JeeVaN Din cHaR pAAvEn JeeVAn Sau sAal..
    tERe kAdmA VicH maR jaWaN.. DuNIyA dEwE MisAaL..<3


  • #2
    Each person needs the freedom to grow and change at their own pace as they see fit. We can only change ourselves..

    yeah u r r8 pooo....
    teacher.. tusi fer nice thread banaya..
    Tu aiSa fatT hiZar da maar seene Shayari Sunet di nu vall a jawe..

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    • #3
      Vry nice di
      ╚► Don't let the world change your smile :)
      Use your smile to change the world :) !!! ◄╝
      sigpic

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Gurdeep Singh Sunet View Post
        Each person needs the freedom to grow and change at their own pace as they see fit. We can only change ourselves..

        yeah u r r8 pooo....
        teacher.. tusi fer nice thread banaya..
        yes Gurdeep! bohot sahi keha tusii...
        mere dil di gal keh dethi... yup... kisenu na majboor
        karo badlan laye... na joor pao...kyuke...
        ehe zaroori nahi aa.. insaan jida da wi aa..
        ohnu owein accept karo..

        thnks soo muchh!!!!
        glad you liked it ...
        <3..MeiN jEenA tErE nAal.. JeeVaN Din cHaR pAAvEn JeeVAn Sau sAal..
        tERe kAdmA VicH maR jaWaN.. DuNIyA dEwE MisAaL..<3

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Happyforever View Post
          Vry nice di
          thanks puttra ...
          <3..MeiN jEenA tErE nAal.. JeeVaN Din cHaR pAAvEn JeeVAn Sau sAal..
          tERe kAdmA VicH maR jaWaN.. DuNIyA dEwE MisAaL..<3

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          • #6
            from where u bring these things hmmm nice yaar chuki chloo fattey
            ¸.•°*”˜˜”*°•.ƸӜƷ
            ▲♥▲♥▲♥♥*MEHMI* ♥♥▲♥▲♥▲

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            • #7
              nice .. very nice....
              sigpic
              ♥ღ♥ ਉਮਰਾਂ ਦੀ ਸਾਂਝ ਹੋਵੇ ਯਾਰ ਤੇਰੇ ਨਾਲ ♥ღ♥

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              • #8
                Originally posted by mehmi22 View Post
                from where u bring these things hmmm nice yaar chuki chloo fattey
                Bas jii.. pucho naa
                its for all of you..
                pasand aya.. bas ehi kaafi aa!!
                <3..MeiN jEenA tErE nAal.. JeeVaN Din cHaR pAAvEn JeeVAn Sau sAal..
                tERe kAdmA VicH maR jaWaN.. DuNIyA dEwE MisAaL..<3

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by TejpalSIngh View Post
                  nice .. very nice....
                  thanksss!
                  <3..MeiN jEenA tErE nAal.. JeeVaN Din cHaR pAAvEn JeeVAn Sau sAal..
                  tERe kAdmA VicH maR jaWaN.. DuNIyA dEwE MisAaL..<3

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                  • #10
                    very nice and totally truth...
                    amazing.......
                    Ki padiye ehna Kitaaban nu
                    Har safe te OHDA Hi didaar hove
                    Ik ik Akhar te RAAT beet jandi
                    "Gurjeet"Kise nu na eh chandra PYAR hove

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                    • #11
                      Its hard to change ourselves nd sum1 also. Bt you have no need to change dat person whom u loves. Love neva needs nd wants change.
                      kuch is kamaal se kheli usne ishq ki baazi. . .
                      K mei apni jeet samajhta raha haar jane tak

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Yuvraj786 View Post
                        Its hard to change ourselves nd sum1 also. Bt you have no need to change dat person whom u loves. Love neva needs nd wants change.
                        Yess, sahi keha tusi Yuvraj...
                        par kaye log eda karde ne... so ona laye aa ehe thread...
                        ke jehnu tusi dilon chaune aa..ohnanu odan accept karo..
                        kisenu wi badlan di lod ni.. bas ik duje nu samjan di lod aa!!

                        thnks!
                        <3..MeiN jEenA tErE nAal.. JeeVaN Din cHaR pAAvEn JeeVAn Sau sAal..
                        tERe kAdmA VicH maR jaWaN.. DuNIyA dEwE MisAaL..<3

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by GURJEET4EVRY1 View Post
                          very nice and totally truth...
                          amazing.......
                          thank youuu Gurjeet
                          <3..MeiN jEenA tErE nAal.. JeeVaN Din cHaR pAAvEn JeeVAn Sau sAal..
                          tERe kAdmA VicH maR jaWaN.. DuNIyA dEwE MisAaL..<3

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