**Past Relationship and Present....:)

[Proud_desan]

Guyz we all go through many relationships before we end up with the PERFECT ONE......

some of us end up with the one and onli, some of us have an arranged marraige.....

now incase its arranged or even love.....what do u think, you would do....and my question here is.....

"SHOULD YOU TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND OR YOUR HUSBAND/WIFE ABOUT YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIP OR RELATIONSHIPS, HOW IMPORTANT IS IT FOR THEM TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR PAST AND WHY???"

The reason why this question came to me is because my friend was told by her mother to keep her past relationships a secret from her going to be husband and it will keep their relationship smooth....

mera question hai....."kya thuanu apne boyfriend/girlfriend ya husband/wife nu apne puraane relationship waare dasna chaida???"

Please vote and then xplain yourself in detail....:)

Thank you!!!

[GURI Ludhianvi]

Yeah.... for sure...

Loyality towards ur partner always give outcome... :).. bee it sonner or later...

The Partner will come to know bout ur past.. at some point in ur life...

and at that time.. he/she may not have such good understanding in u.. as it would be at the present.... :)

[Proud_desan]

Yeah.... for sure...

Loyality towards ur partner always give outcome... :).. bee it sonner or later...

The Partner will come to know bout ur past.. at some point in ur life...

and at that time.. he/she may not have such good understanding in u.. as it would be at the present.... :)

well said guri ji....:)

thank you soo much for ur reply...:)

[kanwarjot]

I think yes, before getting into relationship just do a briefing..otherwise if it comes up in future then the relationship might suffer

[Proud_desan]

I think yes, before getting into relationship just do a briefing..otherwise if it comes up in future then the relationship might suffer
hummmm....got it....
thanx kanwar....:)

[GURJEET4EVRY1]

i think bilkul dasna chahida
hun onhu nahi dassoge te kinu dassoge jine thode naal hun puri life rehna

well dasan naal eh hoyega ki us de mann wich koi doubt nahi rahuga thode baare te oh apne aap nu us situation de according samjha sakdi aa
jis naal future life ch koi problem naa hove

te hamesha insaan nu apni bhul nu kive sudharana eh te sochna hi chaida par us de naal naal eh vi sochna zaruri hai ki aan waale time nu kiddan best banauna taki fer mud ke oh galti na ho sake

islayi main samjhda ki dasna chahida

[Proud_desan]

hummmm...well said gurjeet...thanx a lot for ur reply..:)

[**SARAH**]

It depends on people.
Before I used to be really honest...and share every single detail of my past life...
But one day...I learned a good lesson.
People are not the same...
Not everyone can accept who you are...
Sometimes they misunderstand...
So...first you should know the person...
Then if you find him capable enough,,,,yes...You'd better share everything!

[Proud_desan]

excellent sarah.....i think i can agree with u most as if yet...
anyone else has opinions?

[G.S. Sahota]

yes.....every little details of my past....but sm1 else did it on my behalf without my Permission.... coz he wanted to malign my image in her eyes........

[Proud_desan]

well sahota think of it this way....maybe ur relationship itself wasnt so strng enuff to survive thru sumthn like this, maybe what ur considering right now was done for the good......u shud always look at all sides of things not just the side that u think is right..

[*Sunet*]

yaaahhhh... sara kuch dasna chhida...

[Proud_desan]

i got the polls but no replies....y's that?

:thinking:

[S0DHI]

Hanji das dena chahida ...Qnk j na daso ta pher apnay aap naal tey apnay naal dhoka kar rahay ho....ek na ek din sara sach samnay aa hi janda hai...tey ho sakda hai k pher tuhada partner sochay k you ruined his or her life by not being upfront at the start of the relationship.... So Yes - better to come clean at the start...

[*Sunet*]

hummm saare purane khol k rakhte... thread :p

[Proud_desan]

thanx sodhi ji!...:)

[tohr kaur]

Thora bhut das dena chahida.................:)

[*Sunet*]

hummmmmmmmmmmmm dasia ta cccccc :(

[kewlsterdude]

Depends i mean u cant really say ryte....tell em after u no em betta....so u know if the person is emotionally stable.....if u tell em everythin just like that a relation would never work.....neways so how many f u actually have found the perfect one??

[1jot]

Hmmm
das Dena aaa Sara kuch

[kewlsterdude]

lol easy said then done missy....

[*Sunet*]

kihnu :eyelashes:

[1jot]

lol easy said then done missy....

Yeah sahi kea aaa:(

[tohr kaur]

Sara ni dasna chahida it can effect ur present............

[kewlsterdude]

awww.main taa sirf ahh kainaa aa ke inaa saukha ni hunda...munde taa specially phaj lainde aa...

[kewlsterdude]

lol ur startin a relation rit....mainu ni lagda tusi kuj vi keh sakde o...dun people act their best wen they in love ..shuru shuru ch u see

[*Sunet*]

hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm/// dasna chahdia.. luko k rakhan naal dilla ch doriya hundiya............. :yes:

naale sacha pyaar hi oh hunda jo sab kuch sach manne..

[1jot]

kihnu :eyelashes:

:lol:
nlayk janta:hahaha:
eh te n menu v ni pata:p

[*Sunet*]

janta bahut hoshiaaaraaaa :p

[Proud_desan]

lol easy said then done missy....

i knw.....but sayin is better...coz u neva knw when ur past mite just come in front of u n in wat situation....so y regret later?

[kewlsterdude]

as i said .....i wud rather explore how emotionally stable the other person is...unless we talkin bollywood here

[*Sunet*]

yeaahhh .. datsss ri888... one shud tell everything abt him/her to his her p[artner..

[kewlsterdude]

okie mate

[Proud_desan]

dude..its not talkin bou bollywood...
its bou ur life in the long term......

[kewlsterdude]

hey i know..thas wat m sayin...people move on rit.....seldom does neone face his/her past....u just have to make the present rit

[Proud_desan]

n usually the most unexpected things come to ur face in the most unusual way..

[*Sunet*]

hummmm excuse me :p

according to me.. present is always based on past hummm :thinking:

[kewlsterdude]

okie thas ur preception aye......havnt happened to me so i dunno i reckon i would concentrate on my present n future i guess

[Proud_desan]

OKie!

[kewlsterdude]

finally i win the polls yeiiyeeyy

[Proud_desan]

u didnt win...:p

but sure ...OKIE!

[Tan]

Before disclosing ur secret & sharing ur past i think first of all one should know a lil bit abt that person before getting into relationship it helps for a smooth,loving,caring & understanding relationship with ur partner.....
and the best way for this is to be friend which gives comfort level in ur relationship.
Thats what i am enjoying :)

[Proud_desan]

awww..perfectly put it tani..:)

[lonelygirl]

i think we must have explain each n every thing....

[Victor]

har ek cheej dasni chahidi a ji.its my point of view...........

[Param Sandhu]

:haha:..sry sis hassa aa gya boys de cmmt padh kk..hun ta sab kahnde ne dasna cahidha aa..par pehla ehna nu pucho eh kihna k dasn gy:rolleyes:..ja kis kis bare dasn gy:haha::haha::p


now seriously:)
:nono: galti nal v nahi dasna cahidha jihna chir tuhanu pta nahi k next person de ki thinking aa..han je past present nu effect karda aa ta jihna jarori aa ohna hi dasso..han har nikki nikki gal no never kde v na dasoo:nono:mostly past dasn te dil ch doubt beh janda aa ..fer relation khrab hi hunda aa

lambha ho gya lecture:rolleyes::p
detail ch lecture laye msg me:p

[Param Sandhu]

jad girls de cmmt follow kariyo...mostly sade cmmts same aa:genius:

[Proud_desan]

hummm...yea param....teri gal sahi aa...:)

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[Proud_desan]

what was this?

[# ♥BuGGa ☞ ThE ਢੀਠ♥ #]

ahda matlab bande te depend karda :d

j hor

bnon di slah a

ta na dassso :d



kioki hun


kide kide

baare dassi jaoge


:hahaha:

[1jot]

ahda matlab bande te depend karda :d

j hor

bnon di slah a

ta na dassso :d



kioki hun


kide kide

baare dassi jaoge


:hahaha:
:omg:
:thinking
hmmm

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:omg:
:thinking
hmmm

ki hoiaaa:whistling:

[1jot]

Kinniyea k gfzz c:thinking:

[# ♥BuGGa ☞ ThE ਢੀਠ♥ #]

main dass ta ditta c :huh:

[1jot]

Hmmmmmm
reAly:p

[# ♥BuGGa ☞ ThE ਢੀਠ♥ #]

hor ki main jhooth bolda c :eyebrow:

[1jot]

:no3:
Mai ni Kush keaa

[# ♥BuGGa ☞ ThE ਢੀਠ♥ #]

fer ok a :kiss:

[Be_aware_JATT_herE]

meri koi past, present relationship heni :D



es lai sanu kush nai pata es bare :)